Women - The Breakdown - Page 2

Another great piece of information is this- when they say they don't know what to do, you'd better remember at least one thing she has been wanting to do, and do it. In most cases, women want the man to take charge of a date, meaning you need to put together some plans that show you were thinking about her. This is a weekly thing, at best. Another thing to remember is that the more considerate you become, the greater her demands become. That's why you never want to get too carried away at the beginning of a relationship. Women expect things to progress, not decline. (We naturally tend to let things decline over time anyway.) I'm not trying to scare anyone off, but relationships are a lot of work! They are never ever maintenance free.

Women are in constant competition with every other woman on the planet, and they can be vicious! They look at each other as killers, and verbally pick each other apart behind each other's back. (The level of these actions vary from girl to girl, but they all tend to do it). Never bring up fat, or weight gain, or anything that may suggest it. Women always think they are fat, and it doesn't matter what you say as it won't change a thing in their minds. This should be a gimmie, But if she asks if you think she is putting on weight, change the subject or say she looks great - period.

You may think to yourself, "Women are out to change me." Is this true or false? True. When you started dating, she liked 90% of you and had at least a few things she felt she needed to change. Yes, this is true for every girl with every guy. Half the time women don't even realize they think this way. They do, and they'll never admit it! It will rarely be earlier than 3 months into the relationship, but it will happen. If you're aware of this you'll notice when it happens. It will come through little comments and suggestions, and it will progress. You must fight these problems off as best as you can, because if you don't, you will eventually become this lifeless 'YES man,' or should I say 'YES, MA'AM.' You see it in married couples a lot. The guy gets bowled over time and again with little to no argument on his part. Here's what happens. After you've been with someone for a while, you realize that when she is upset, your life becomes a living hell. So, naturally, you try to appease her. Like a child that always gets what she wants after making a scene, she will subconsciously store this information. She will then realize that all that she needs to do to get what she wants is to become unpleasant. We naturally try to fix things, and a pattern begins. After a year of this, you become a mindless servant, nothing more. I'm not saying to disregard your girl. What I'm saying is to be aware of unhealthy patterns. Otherwise, you're doomed!