Women - The Breakdown

Women! Well, that's one of the reasons you're here, mostly because they are so damned hard to understand. Make no mistake, men and women have little in common, in most cases. Women enjoy talking and sharing their feelings, men do not. They actually enjoy shopping for hours, searching every store in the mall for that perfect outfit. An outfit that will make them look their very best, men rarely care. For women an outfit can't be worn more than once one week, whereas we usually wear the same outfit several times. Women want you in their heart before sex, men need to check out the sex first. Women need to feel like you respect and honor them. This next one is important! Women need to feel like they are a priority in your life, meaning you don't break plans with them to hang out with your friends. You should clarify with her beforehand. Women need to know that you are interested in them first, and sex second, third, or fourth.

The above are just a few things, and by reading the above you can get an idea that we think a lot differently. The differences can make a relationship a great challenge to maintain at times, but realizing the differences will help you significantly! The Cherade team has dated hundreds of different girls and all the items above hold true. Some may say that it isn't an issue with them and it might not be at first. Once the relationship takes a turn torwards the serious side, it always remains true!

Here are some little things to help you understand. Guys tend to look at things in black and white, meaning we rule based on the facts. Women are not like this, they will go off on how the result makes them feel. Essentially, you will have to look at things your way, and then convert it into how she will perceive it. I'm not joking around here, this is the only way I have survived. I will never care about the same things she does, but I will always relate to her point of view. Just remember that there's always another way to percieve

things. Look at things and keep your mind open, and you should do OK. This is one of those things that take a lot of practice. I told my girlfriend upfront how I see things, and that has made her a little more patient with me. After practicing the tools on this site, getting women will be easy. Maintaining a relationship will be a whole new ball game, so read up.

Talking to your girl will greatly improve your understanding. This is usually good to do during a fight. Ask her why she feels the way she does, then explain the way you feel about it. This will be an eye opener for both of you, and in the end, she'll have a better idea of the way you see things. Keep in mind you'll never be right for feeling that way, but she may at the very least, give you some slack. That, in itself, will help tremendously.