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    4) COLLEGE, It gets a lot easier here. One of the best tricks I learned starts at the beginning of the semester. When you have a smaller class, seating is usually permanent throughout the semester. Even if the teacher doesn't assign seats, students usually stick to the same seats they take on the first day of class. Don't just show up to class the first day and sit down. Show up early, and wait outside the classroom. Don't make yourself obviously visible. Act like you're on the phone or something. Then wait for a hot girl (or a decent girl in your range) to walk into the classroom. Hmmmm! You may just want to sit next to her. This is especially important for those that have no game. You will have all semester to work on her. It's great! If you're a college student, you know that most classes require teamwork at some point in the semester, which provides you with another opportunity to work her over on a much more personal level.
    5) WORK:This is an easy score, but a deadly one. Remember that you work with this person, and if it doesn't work, you're going to have to drive her out, quit, or transfer. Keep in mind that smart girls will realize this too, and may be hesitant. Work allows you to gather a lot more information on your target, which will serve you well. There are usually endless subjects for icebreakers, and closing percentages are usually very high. Just remember the warnings above. It can get bad really fast if she gets a sour taste in her mouth.
    6) BEACH, LAKE, AND OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES: This is another big winner! Chances are, if you're involved in these things, you will have something in common with your target. If you have toys to show off, you will have a bigger chance to score. Trolling for girls around your boat is a big winner. There's nothing that girls, trapped on the beach, want more than to be out on the lake, river or ocean. Needless to say, your physique can assist you here if you have a good build. If not, read personal upgrades and physical fitness tips.
    7) MALLS: They're not bad spots. We all know what girls love most SHOPPING! There are some fun angles you can play here. For example, you can approach a girl while she is shopping for clothes. Then, pick an outfit you think she would look great in. (Note the size. It should be, roughly, a size smaller than you would guess she wears). Then slide up to her and state, "This would look amazing on you! I'd love to see you in it. Say tonight around 8 for dinner?" OK, it's more of a line, but it's funny and you don't come across as some sleaze bag (If she doesn't laugh, move on). If nothing else, your comments will break into some light conversation and a possible a hook up at a later date. Here you will still be using the techniques learned in icebreakers and the approach. This is just an example of an icebreaker in the mall.