Personal Upgrades

1) First things first. Who do want to be? Break him down / analyze him. The more detail you provide yourself with the better, you should accept his job, his style, his hair, his likes and dislikes. When you're done, compare the person you are to the person you want to be. This will allow you to break down / analyze itemized differences. This in turn, will allow you to work on one area at a time and make it possible to make a transition. It's impossible to do it all at once, and that's why these steps are so important. This allows you to take manageable steps in the right direction. Keep this in mind when you're reading. There will be a lot of great information ahead, so manage it as best you can.

2) Work-out. You don't need to become a muscle bound moron, but get some size. This will improve your self confidence and appearance. I will cover this in more detail under the physical fitness section.

3) Your car. It should be unique and it should reflect your personality. This doesn't mean you need to run out and get a Hummer or a Viper, but a tan Camery screams dull. If you have the Camery, make it unique / one of a kind. You must fight becoming one of the numbers, dance to a different drummer, take the road less traveled, live life...

4) Have a life. There is nothing worse than dating someone who doesn't have one. You don't want to become someone's life focus, and they don't want to become yours. Your relationship has no place to grow if all your experiences are shared. You must be able to have a degree of separation in your life for it to be healthy and interesting. You'll want your partner to be able to share these new experiences as well.

5) Learn a little about everything. Women want someone who is worldly, a jack of all trades, if you will. Women look for smarts as well as looks. For example- you can meet the hottest girl of all time, but if she is as dumb as a door knob, there is only so much you can do with her before you go mad!

6) Sports. If you are still in school this can be a major advantage. The social pipeline that comes with it is a gold mine. There are many other advantages as well that are learned on the playing field. The greatest asset when involved with sports is teamwork, then camaraderie. I'm sure you can list a dozen yourself. The point is that sports is a valuable tool in a individual's growth.

7) Tattoos. Hey most girls like them. Just make sure they are things you want to look at when your sixty. There should be a story that goes with them, and they should help identify who you are. Don't rush into this one. Tattoos will only accentuate you; they won't transform you. They are just another sign / symbol of who you are. They in themselves are nothing without a strong character to guide them.

8) Languages. The more you speak, the cooler you are. I don't know what to tell you. There's just something sexy about it. The knowledge of these languages display so much more than the speech itself. It paints a degree of culture, world travel and adventure, as well. Languages have a way of casting a whole new light on a person. The minute they hear you are bilingual, they will instantly gain a new respect for you.

9) Everything you own should reflect something about you or who you want to be. There should be a story behind everything and it should a play a role in the story of your life. Odd trinkets and antiques are usually items women will question and admire. Remember, its all about creating an image of who you want to be and slowly filling those shoes. What kind of things would this person possess?

10) Hang out with people that you would like to be; their success will rub off on you. You are a product of your environment, whether you want to be or not. You will pick up some of this knowledge, interests and ideas. This new information will go on to fuel new ideas of your own and will help you in completing your image.

11) Read anything. It will help develop your character and give you depth. You should always strive to better yourself. You will live a richer and fuller life. I promise! I have been around the world twice. I have experienced a lot of what the world has to offer and I still feel I can do more. This site was just one way I made myself climb to the next level. The next step is to build the car of my dreams........ myself. Stay hungry. Your thirst for life will be seen by everyone you encounter. Men will want to be like you and women will strive to be with you.

12) Culture yourself. Try new foods. Visit different places, even if its a town fifty miles away. Stay there for the day to take it in. Remember, you're a tiny piece of this world. Be instrumental. To quote Renee Descarte, "All I truly know, is that I know nothing." no one can know all there is to know about everything. You usually know a great deal about only a few things, That's why our team created Cherade. This is the area my colleagues and I understand.