Ice-Breakers - Page 2

your personal information onto the end of her answers, it will appear that you're having a normal conversation. This will allow you to continue to probe for more information.

6. The old safety measure is buying a woman a drink from across the room and then swaggering up a minute or so later. Make sure the drink is something fun and cool. Boring is dull and dull means a lonely ride home. Women, like you, want fun and excitement. You need to be able to portray a man that will fill their lives with something different. Remember, they want what you want. Oh&..but they want the romance too!

7. Here's another example: (Your opener) "Can you dance? Let's go!" (If she says "no") "It's easy, come on!" If you can't dance, you'd better make a joke out of it out on the dance floor. Otherwise, you'll be the joke in the end. Dancing is something most women take seriously. They like to look good out there, and more times than not, they will not be seen with someone who doesn't dance well.

8. The important thing to remember is: a) anticipate any and all responses. An unexpected response is what causes most people to choke. b) act as if her response was what you expected. This way you remain confident in their eyes and you may continue to work it. You should have an idea about how the conversation will develop long before it takes place. Controlling the conversation will help you tremendously. The last thing you need is for the girl to take control of the conversation. God only knows where it will head!

9. Look to Bond for lessons on smoothness. Bond doesn't approach weak and awkwardly. He's focused and poised to strike. He's never surprised and he's always cool-headed. Bond isn't a man, he's an icon, an icon that this site takes very seriously. Watch a Bond movie and you'll see what I mean. Screw the plot! Watch him! His every movement is the key to the icon that he has become. The only thing Bond isn't is fun, and that's why Cherade is here. Cherade takes the fun of life and the smoothness of Bond and combines it into an impeccable approach that is unmatched by anyone or anything.

10. Another good rule of thumb is this: she's human, just like you. She has needs, she wants love, and believe it or not, she wants sex just as badly as you do. Remember this when you're talking with her. The only difference between you and her is the fact that she has something to protect. Women can't sleep around like we do and still feel good about themselves. If you find one who does, check her luggage. I'm sure she's carrying a bundle! The point is that they need to think that this will be kept on the down low and that they are important to you. The last thing she wants is to become the bar slut. Make her believe you just want to share time and have fun, and the rest will come. I know this sounds relatively easy. Remember that you need to be able to persuade them that you're this guy without selling them (your persistence will give you away). If you understand this statement, you'll be ahead of the game.