Approaching the Female - Page 2

F) Activities? This is probably the easiest way in. All you have to do is get involved in what she is doing (Note: if you're good at what she's doing, be the man. Don't be pompous, be great. However, if you stink, make it comical. This will make her more approachable, and you now have a common interest. Having common interests will be a great weapon. Common interests will allow her to start talking openly and prevent her from crawling back into her shell. Once you get her talking, you'll be able to find out quickly if this is someone you want to continue pursuing.

G) Dress? This will help you identify her better and determine an appropriate icebreaker. Remember that you can get a lot of information from her dress. You can see how she keeps herself up / her level of maintenance. learn something about her financial situation, the type of crowd she runs with, and even her intentions for the evening.

H) Her build? This again is used to help identify her. Does she look like she works out? Where? With whom? Involved in what sports? This information can help you again with your icebreaker. Her build can also identify her lifestyle, her passions, and her dreams.

I) Body language? This can be the most important information of all. How does she carry herself? A woman with an erect posture has confidence, which in turn means a worthy adversary. A women with poor posture means she lacks self-esteem. This can be a good piece of information. It will mean that a little flattery will go a long way, and also, that she isn't used to being picked up. How does she sit? How does she handle her glass? How does she dance? Analyze everything. This is where you will find their strengths and weaknesses, and these will make or break you!!!

J) Review your data. What have you seen that will help you? Weigh everything. Is she weak or strong? Is she rich or poor? Is she out to pass the time or out to cause some hell? Is she looking for love or just a good time? Is she bored? Is she married? Are her friends a good crowd or are they a rough bunch? You should have the answers to these questions and more before you approach. A premature approach could seal your fate with this lovely, so over-analyze if you must, but be prepared. Yes, I know it's the Boy Scout motto, but it's still the key to everything!

K) Evaluate your notes and compare with your partner. Ok! Now you should have a decent sense of who this girl is. Now it's time to bounce your perspective off your partner, buddy or wingman. Compare your notes. He may have seen something you didn't. Best of all he may agree with a lot of your observations. This will only improve your confidence, and at the best time.